We have been discussing (my husband and I) in a permanent birth control plan. I have been on the pill for the last 20 yrs of our marriage. I am so tired of taking care of the birth control. We planned for 3 kids. Well, we are expecting our bonus baby, I was not careful with my pills, sleep depravation, and raising a teen, preteen and a toddler. I asked my husband to get a vasectomy, which he is refusing because his masculinity will not allow him to "give in". I don't want to get a tubal ligation but might as well get it. These are his words and I quote: "I would get a vasectomy only if I knew I was going to be unfaithful and sleep around", like wth?! I've been giving birth to our children, and I thought I asked for what was fair, for him to give in for once. Am I over exaggerating? Or he's just being unreasonable?
Congratulations on your surprise baby! You are definitely not over exaggerating, and he is being unreasonable. I agree with you his comment was a stupid one, although he was trying to be reassuring in his own way. Wait and see what happens, if you end up needing a C section you can get a tubal ligation at the same time and won’t even notice it. I don’t think he understands how hard it is to be on the pill for so long, and as you get older the risk of stroke increases, tell him after this baby you will not be going on the pill and if you don’t need a C section he needs to get a vasectomy or start using condoms or sleep on the couch. I hope it all goes well with your new baby and that you get a lot of help from the older kids.
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