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My friend is still depressed over her husband divorcing her it’s been like 8 months. She acts like the man died. Is this normal?
I told her It’s been 8 months; this is getting out of hand you shouldn’t be crying still you act like the man died and she’s posting crying pictures on Facebook and all that. I told her don’t do that take the crying post down you want people in your BUSINESS, and she snapped at me and told me “I don’t care about people being in my BUSINESS leave me alone about that.”
Yes, for some people this is normal, and it’s extremely painful. Any loss will bring up all the old, unresolved losses she has had in her life, and it takes time for them to heal. Would you be able to find a divorce support group and offer to go with her or take her? (Or perhaps during Covid an online group) The poor girl might be reaching out for help with her Facebook posts, but because she is an adult, she can post whatever she wants. You don’t have the right to tell another adult what posts they should take down, so as she said, leave her alone about that. If you find them too stressful to see, go to the three little drop-down dots on the right side of the post and snooze her for 30 days, or hide that post. Remember that love is patient and kind. If her distress (and Facebook posts about her divorce) continue for more than a year, suggest she let her family Dr. know. She is lucky to have a good friend like you.
There was a customer that was so rude and don’t acknowledge my greeting and was slow at grabbing her stuff so by the time she got to her bags she flailed her arms and put her stuff in the cart while I watched, then when she finally got to the last few items (that didn’t need a bag) she started BAGGING them so just to be a dick I took a HUGE sip of my water and she was so salty after and then when I didn’t count back the change either she stormed off all mad so I said to the next customer “I’m SO SORRY for the extra-long wait ma’am, some people just take their sweet time”. The store director was so salty and butthurt and said it was the last straw and since I have worked under 90 days, he could just fire me, what bullshit.
Yes, you deserved to get fired. The number one rule of working in retail is that the customer is always right. Whether or not the customer acknowledged your greeting should not matter to you at all, you should continue to politely greet everyone if that is what they asked you to do in training. You must also be very patient to work in retail and always count back change correctly. You have a terrible attitude, you are impatient and rude and your boss was correct, you are under probation for the first 90 days which is in place just to get rid of people like you. If you wish to earn money in retail, then you need to take this as a learning experience and if you get another job follow your training exactly and take deep breaths to control yourself and practice being patient, it can be learned and will serve you well in all areas of your life.
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