I have a horse which I keep at a boarding stable. I have a group of friends there and I really enjoy seeing them each week. We have an online chat group too and have stayed in touch during the pandemic. Last week, on of the ladies posted a message that she was moving her horse to another barn and that she would miss everyone.
She did not give any explanation for why she was leaving. I'm sad that she won't be around anymore, and I can't figure out why she would go so suddenly. The stable owner removed her from our chat group. I suspect that they may have had an argument.
I'm dying to know what happened, but I feel like I would be gossiping to ask the other ladies and I don't want to cause trouble, pick sides or get involved in any way. What would you do?
PS I sent my friend a private message to with her well at her new barn.
If your friend responds to your private message, then respond saying you will miss her, and you are wondering if she moved because her new barn is a better price or closer to her home. This will give her the chance to respond with the reason why she left, if she wants to discuss it. I agree, it would be gossiping to ask the other ladies, but keep your ears open around them and someone might eventually talk about it. If only the people at your stable are on the chat group, it’s not surprising that the owner removed her, it doesn’t necessarily mean there was an argument. Other than that, I think you will have to mind your own business and accept the fact that it might be something you will never know.
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